While strides have been made in recognizing and stopping domestic violence, there is still progress to be made. Carthage Area Hospital stands with victims of domestic abuse, especially during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, by spreading awareness and promoting the study of behavioral health to prevent violence before starts. Domestic abuse comes in many forms, which is part of the reason why it can be hard to identify—a necessary first step in stopping the cycle of violence.
Signs of Abuse
Domestic violence can affect anyone, and there is no shame in reaching out for help. A victim can display behavioral health issues before any physical marks start showing up. Threats of physical harm can often be just as harmful as the acts themselves, and it’s important to notice these intimidation tactics, as small actions often turn into consistent and increasingly dangerous violence. Whether physical, sexual, emotional, or a combination of all three, no abuse should be dismissed.
Emotional Abuse
The typical image of domestic violence is a violent, abusive man who physically dominates his partner and kids. While this is a serious issue that needs to be reported to police right away, emotional abuse is a bigger problem than acknowledged. An individual who berates their partner, manipulates their emotions, or blames them for their own abusive behavior is engaging in domestic violence. Intense jealousy, control of movement, and unpredictable tempers are other signs to be wary of. This sort of controlling or belittling abuse leaves emotional bruises on an individual’s behavioral health.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month
The scope of this important month has expanded from a “Day of Unity” in 1981 to an entire month in 1987 and every following year. Since its inception, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence has worked tirelessly to mourn those who have died from domestic violence, celebrate those who have survived, and connect those who are striving to end the violence. Activists have lobbied for new laws to protect victims, established a toll-free hotline, and pushed the pervasive issue into the national consciousness. Domestic violence happens among couples of all types, and DVAM helps to bring all people together with powerful healing.